25. Married to a touring musician and audio engineer. I prefer to keep things whimsical.My Life as a Band WifeTumblr (3.0; @mylifeasabandwife)http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/Defeater's 'Letters Home' pre-orders, stream "Bastards"bridge9: Pre-order Defeater’s upcoming LP, Letters Home, and stream a new song, “Bastards”, at...http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/52165363338http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/52165363338Tue, 04 Jun 2013 17:08:41 -0400laurapainemaasNew blog - Laura is Imaginary. I hope you’ll read and...<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/e31149105ebd45860689593349030ed4/tumblr_mkuso8AJXW1r2dzdqo1_500.png"/><br/><br/><p>New blog - Laura is Imaginary. I hope you’ll read and follow!</p> <p><a href="http://lauraisimaginary.blogspot.com" target="_blank">http://lauraisimaginary.blogspot.com</a></p> <p><sub>♥L</sub></p>http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/47308721285http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/47308721285Sat, 06 Apr 2013 17:50:32 -0400bloglaura maasblogspotbloggerlaurapainemaasI haven't thought of topics for you to write about, but I haven't told you how cool you are lately. But it's true, I love this blog and I think you're the sweetest!Aw, thank you so much! I really appreciate that.http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/36971178875http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/36971178875Sat, 01 Dec 2012 14:50:56 -0500Help out.<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_medb37FqRr1r2dzdqo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>Help out.</p>http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/36971124986http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/36971124986Sat, 01 Dec 2012 14:49:55 -0500MakerlaurapainemaasA thing or two about a hiatus and being trapped in a boxI&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ve noticed that I&#8217;ve taken a break from blogging. There are several...http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/36906351409http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/36906351409Fri, 30 Nov 2012 17:54:32 -0500blogvacationtop 10tipssuggestionslaurapainemaasI met a guy I like in a band. He's the rocker type I'm so NOT the rocker type. There's a mutual connection, but, I'm worried his interest feigns every so often due to the fact I have no idea about the genres of music he is into or what hes into in general. Everything is new in this situation, but I want to give things an honest shot. Is it good to do my homework. Would it keep him interested if I learned more, or would it seem that I am trying too hard. Thanks-The not so musically inclinedHi TNSMI, When it comes to relationships, it is great to have things in common - but it is also...http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/36903721320http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/36903721320Fri, 30 Nov 2012 17:18:27 -0500laurapainemaasI recently deleted my tumblr, or else I wouldn't be anonymous, but I just want to let you know I still check this blog from time to time. I am the fiance of a touring musician and seeing someone go through the same things as me is so supporting. I admire your writing as well as you as a person! Just thank you, you've helped a lot.I’m so glad that this blog has helped you - it helped me a lot, too! I have some things in the...http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/36902928276http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/36902928276Fri, 30 Nov 2012 17:07:29 -0500laurapainemaasIt's just like liquor stores, mailboxes and pay phones...Sex sells and (unfortunately) I&#8217;m buying. But really, as the song says, I don&#8217;t mean...http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/33009359874http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/33009359874Sat, 06 Oct 2012 11:42:00 -0400Sex sells and unfortunately I'm buyingPiebaldSexintimacymarriagetourlovebloggingwritingLena ChenSex and the ivyCarrie BradshawSex and the CityIve Leaguerelationshipsadvicesextingband wifeasklaurapainemaasFleurst-Rate: Letters To You - Barack Obama This was originally posted on fellow soon-to-be band wife Fleur Terry&#8217;s blog, Fleurst-Rate. I...http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/32899722379http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/32899722379Thu, 04 Oct 2012 18:55:43 -0400band wifeguest postletterBarack ObamaEnglandAmericaFleur TerryCaleb Shomomarriagelaurapainemaas"The only way you can write the truth is to assume that what you set down will never be read. Not by..."“The only way you can write the truth is to assume that what you set down will never be read....http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/32769314617http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/32769314617Tue, 02 Oct 2012 20:06:39 -0400laurapainemaasHow can any one tour have so much eye drama?It has been a rough day for this band wife, and a rougher night for my husband. I had originally...http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/32639108365http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/32639108365Sun, 30 Sep 2012 21:10:02 -0400toureyesinjuryaustralialovemarriageseparationlaurapainemaasThank you, Susan Miller. Apparently I will become even more of...<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mb5se6x7cN1r2dzdqo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>Thank you, Susan Miller. Apparently I will become even more of an old lady.</p>http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/32585910776http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/32585910776Sun, 30 Sep 2012 06:42:06 -0400homeheartlifelovemarriagehoroscopeleolaurapainemaasPhotos from the road: I hope J brings me one from Australia!<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mb54whfXSl1r2dzdqo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>Photos from the road: I hope J brings me one from Australia!</p>http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/32564867297http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/32564867297Sat, 29 Sep 2012 22:14:41 -0400touraustraliakoalaanimalband wifelaurapainemaas#BandWifeFail - Who needs to see, anyway?J left for Australia about a week ago. The two weeks he had been home went by so fast. Between...http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/32529968495http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/32529968495Sat, 29 Sep 2012 13:00:28 -0400AustraliaDefeater tourpackingtourglassesguesscontactsgetaway recordingViberband wivesband wifeband wife faillaurapainemaasThis may be an awkward question. But how do you and Jay maintain your physical intimacy while he is gone on tour? My Fiance is gone a lot for tour, and none of my friends understand what this is like. This blog has been a huge help in a lot of ways (especially for making me feel less alone) but there doesn't seem to be a lot covered on this. Unless I just haven't read deeply enough. Sorry if this is too personal.Hey Anon! I always wondered if and when this question would be asked. I have never written about it....http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/32431407844http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/32431407844Thu, 27 Sep 2012 21:33:39 -0400Pinspiration: Our WeddingOn Tuesday, Jay and I celebrated our one year wedding anniversary. It was well timed, with him...http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/31589587914http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/31589587914Sat, 15 Sep 2012 11:23:00 -0400WeddingMarriageLovephotosJay MaasLaura MaasMy life as a band wifeWillowdale EstateZac Wolftour lifetour wifelaurapainemaasgetawayrecording: Best Show. <img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ma98edJhCN1qg613do1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://getawayrecording.tumblr.com/post/31463837004/best-show" target="_blank">getawayrecording</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>Best Show.</p> </blockquote>http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/31467064225http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/31467064225Thu, 13 Sep 2012 12:59:37 -0400DefeaterVerseAviatorUNHlaurapainemaasSomething about the blues... [Apparently, humans are just a bunch of prairie voles| Source] Think back to a time when you have...http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/30723921155http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/30723921155Sun, 02 Sep 2012 09:52:00 -0400Scientific AmericanLisa DiamondUniversity of Utahanxietydepressionseparation anxietylong-term separationsocial networkingtechnologyrelationshipsloveattachmentlower limit switchMy Life as a Band WifelaurapainemaasLove notes from the road<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m9li3x4oEj1r2dzdqo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>Love notes from the road</p>http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/30556997855http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/30556997855Thu, 30 Aug 2012 21:14:21 -0400lovemarriagetree carvingmaas familyJay Maastourmy life as a band wifelaurapainemaasNow playing<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m9g0vgjUvF1r2dzdqo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>Now playing</p>http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/30359370881http://mylifeasabandwife.tumblr.com/post/30359370881Mon, 27 Aug 2012 22:14:04 -0400No DoubtReturn of SaturnMusiclaurapainemaas