March 2012
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February 2012
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Did you know: Stuart Murdoch of Belle & Sebastian...
In the late 1980s, while he was studying at the University of Glasgow, Stuart Murdoch became ill with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and was unable to work for seven years. Some reports indicate that he was housebound for eight years. Murdoch said that it was because of this isolation that he became a songwriter.
He said that over the course of a year, his life changed. He went from being an active...
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If you love Pinterest and high-end shopping
You’re going to LOVE The Fancy.
It was only a matter of time before websites similar to the increasingly popular Pinterest started to pop up out of the woodwork. The Fancy describes itself as “part store, blog, magazine and wishlist,” and it’s the store piece that’s really differentiating the platform from its competitor. The site allows you to “Fancy” anything you see on the Web so...
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5 signs your band guy is a dirt bag
While I was surfing around Huffington Post looking for inspiration for this evening’s blog post, I came across the headline, “Why didn’t anyone tell me I was marrying a jerk?”
First of all, once you’ve made the decision that you’re going to marry someone, the likelihood of anyone changing your mind is incredibly slim. Second of all, you probably had some idea...
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The Descendants and the glory of long weekends
It really has been a glorious long weekend, despite the fact that I have this lingering cold that is preventing me from spending adequate time on my yoga mat.
Saturday evening, Jay and I used our Groupon for the Dedham Community Theatre so we could go see The Descendants. I realize that we’re way late to the game on this one, but seriously, it’s one of the best movies we’ve...
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How do you want to die?
Tonight, the band that is staying with us is playing 20 questions with Jay, which is pretty typical with younger, newer bands. This one seems to be asking the right questions and getting the right idea out of it.
One of them asked Jay how he wanted to die, and without hesitation Jay said, “I want to die next to her, asleep in my bed.”
I nearly cried. He went on to say that he wants...
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Should we reject the term, "wife?"
Yesterday I found this great article that discusses the idea that women are less tied to being wives and define themselves by being mothers. The article calls into question the need for the term, “wife,” at all and, if we do keep it around, what the word should mean now that the traditional roles of husband and wives have changed.
This non-identity might be a victory if it meant...
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Happy Valentine's Day -- don't be this girl
It’s that time again. The one day of the year that you either love or hate, regardless of your relationship status. This is my first married Valentine’s Day, and I am looking forward to a picnic of Indian food on the floor with Jay while we watch Arrested Development. Laid back.
Anyway, my friend Rob has started creating these little videos for his company, Black Angus Films. This one...
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Anonymous asked: That story you just posted was so amazingly sad and touching. I just couldn't help to cry. Thank you for sharing.
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No.Other.Words: Married or not, you should read... →
This is a truly wonderful post that I hope all of you enjoy and learn from it as much as I did.
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“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want...
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The LGBTQ are people too: Prop 8 is overturned and...
Well, folks, we’re getting there.
On Feb. 7, a three-judge panel in the Federal District Court of the Northern District of California ruled that Proposition 8 is in violation of the constitutional right of gay men and lesbians in California.
Gee, you think?
From The New York Times:
But Tuesday’s 2-to-1 decision was much more narrowly framed than the sweeping ruling of Judge Walker, who asserted...
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Gisele Bundchen the Yoko of the Patriots?
This morning I woke up to a tweet from my former colleague calling Gisele, “Yoko.” I didn’t understand why she would be saying this, but it caught my eye because of a blog post I wrote last month.When I turned on the radio this morning, I understood where this tweet came from:
Waiting for an elevator after the game with some other Patriots’ wives, Gisele...
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Sunday servings: recipe for filling French toast
Going on a heart-healthy diet — something I really should do — before the Super Bowl has proven to be difficult. I know that, even if you’re not into football (like me) it’s entirely likely you’ll be gathering with friends to watch the game. What gathering is complete without a ton of food? Start stretching (your stomach) out now with this recipe:
Ingredients:
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Are women with tattoos classless?
I was perusing Facebook this evening and found this article posted by one of my friends. It was written by Lisa Khoury for The Spectrum. Here is her argument for why it is classless for women to be tattooed:
I get it. It’s the 21st century. You’re cool, you’re rebellious, you’re cutting edge, you have a point to prove, and you’re a woman. Awesome. Ladies, I know you’re at least at the legal...
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Guest post: getting 'em out the door for tour and...
The following is a guest post from one Lauren Buchanan, who I was lucky enough to meet through Tumblr. It’s been super fun to follow along on her journey, and I hope you all enjoy this post as much as I did!
I’d like to start this off with lots for gratitude and honor for Laura. If you are just now reading her blog and are a band wife or girlfriend, I suggest you start from the beginning....
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Superstition Sunday: Gotta get down on Friday
With Monday on the horizon, and with several of you surely not looking forward to it, here is a superstition about “certain” days of the week — particularly about the day that is seemingly everybody’s favorite:
According to Francis Grose, there are days during a week or month in which people find themselves to either be very fortunate or rather unlucky. Of course, the...
Anonymous asked: this might be a stupid question but... how tall are you and how tall is Jay? it looks like there is quite a height difference between you and him. I always find it so cute.
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Social Media Sunday...
I have several accounts across various social networking channels. Shocking, I know. I’m hoping that you’ll join me on them!
Twitter
Facebook
Google+
Pinterest
LinkedIn
Instagram: @laurapainemaas
ProfNet
And of course I would be honored if each of you would check out my latest InkHouse blog post, How social media networking is like a cocktail party.
Thanks!
Laura ♥
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Anonymous asked: Hey I sent you that message about my boyfriend going to mainland Europe for the first time. Well after a couple of days he told me that one of the promoters was trying to get him 'laid' and upon telling him he had a girlfriend the promoter said 'what happens in Belgium stays in Belgium'... Ever get anything like that? It made me absolutely livid, completely disrespectful!
Anonymous asked: have you ever met a couple where the girlfriend tours and the boyfriend has to deal with being away from them for long periods of time? Just curious, and I'd love to hear about that if so. Love your blog!
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Anonymous asked: My boyfriend's band has headed over to mainland Europe for the first time today for a week on tour. So excited, happy and proud for them. It's only a week but it's my first time where I haven't been able to text him through the day and stuff which is kind of odd, but I'm so excited for them all to go travel together. Plus presents when they come back! I really hope this is...
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Superstition Sunday: A Ghost
Continuing what was started last week, here is the next edition of Superstition Sunday:
A ghost is supposed to be the spirit of a person deceased, who is either commissioned to return for some special errand, such as discovery of a murder, to procure restitution of lands or money unjustly withheld from an orphan or widow — or, having committed some injustice whilst living, cannot rest...
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krissynh asked: Hi i love you
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nameless-ashley:
So today I am working from 8-3 at the salon and then heading to Boston Billiards in Nashua to watch Sean and his band play. They haven’t played out in a while so I am really excited to see him play.
If no one is doing anything and wants to see 10 bands for $10 to help raise money for the Jimy Fund come on down and play some pool and hang out. ( :
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The two-year itch: a look at celebrity divorce
I hate admitting this, but when I heard about Zooey Deschanel filing for divorce from Ben Gibbard, I was a little bummed out. I was also a little bit sad to hear about Katy Perry and Russell Brand. Not because I feel personally connected to these celebrities, but because each couple, after two years of marriage, decided to call it quits.
Just like that, it’s over.
I was going to write this...
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Superstition Sunday
I had previously mentioned starting a blog series, but had yet to do so. Well, here it begins.
While Jay was on tour, he found a tiny black book, entitled, “Superstitions: Omens, Charms, Cures 1787.” Knowing me well, he brought it back. I find this kind of thing to be very fascinating.
For our first superstition:
If, in eating, you miss your mouth, and the victuals fall, it is...
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